Saturday, October 10, 2009

Thirty ONE weeks

Saturday morning and we woke up to a nice layer of snow on the ground. October! I think our high for today is in the mid 30's... brrrrr. We didn't make it to the craft festival last night. By the time we got done with the Multiples rummage sale there would have been only an hour and a half to 'run' through the building. It wasn't worth paying to get into so after a little shuffling of kids we met Tom home about 3 minuets after he got there. He was surprised! We will probably try to go either today or tomorrow. After looking at the forecast I'm thinking today would be a better choice since it might snow again tomorrow.

My little brother, whom Abby and I hung out with yesterday for awhile, started running a temp last night. :( It seems no matter where we go or what we do... it is impossible to avoid being around people who are sick. Hopefully we can avoid getting what he has. I'm already not feeling very good. My chest is really heavy and hurts and I have a nasty cough. Abs took a 2 1/2 hour nap yesterday and I slept for 2 of it!! Made for a fast afternoon I guess and I was still exhausted last night. She's got a bunch of teeth coming in towards the back (maybe molers?) and I've decided this is probably why she's been less than happy for awhile. But we are finally getting those teeth in!

I didn't find much at the sale. We got there about 20 minuets after 6 (it started at 6) and people just went through and grabbed and grabbed stuff! Some had piles by the time we got there. I got a little stuffed bowling pin set and an outfit for Abby all for 3 bucks... but thats all I got. I did join their club though so hopefully there will be more in the future! Abs loved the babies and kept wanting to bring them toys, it was so cute. Perhaps she will love her sisters just as much :)

Well Abby is in need of more breakfast so I should go. Here is what our babies are doing now:

How your baby's growing: 

By now, your baby weighs 3.75 pounds  and is about 16.7 inches long, taking up a lot of space in your uterus. You're gaining about a pound a week and roughly half of that goes right to your baby. In fact, she'll gain a third to half of her birth weight during the next 7 weeks as she fattens up for survival outside the womb. She now has toenails, fingernails, and real hair (or at least respectable peach fuzz). Her skin is becoming soft and smooth as she plumps up in preparation for birth.

 And I will close with a cute Abby story:

We were driving down to my parents to watch my sister run in a Cross Country meet. We've had a lot of road construction lately so while going through one of the zones I moved over a little more onto the shoulder to give the workers some more room. The rumble bars on the side of the road were really loud and Abby very concerned goes "NO NO MOMMY NO!" and then trailed off into her little scolding noises. She was not happy I had gone onto the side of the road!

Friday, October 09, 2009

30 weeks 6 days

There is frost covering everything this morning! We had a good hard freeze and there is talk of snow tonight or tomorrow? Can it really be? I think we are only supposed to get about an inch if we get that. At least it won't stick around long if it does come. It FEELS like a Saturday morning not Friday... I wish it was, then Tom would be off earlier.

My those babies were pushing on me hard last night. I had to get up 5 times to use the bathroom and I'm pretty sure I saw every hour. Not my greatest night of sleep that is for sure. My chest is congested and I have a cough so I feel a little short of breath. Hard to know how much of that (shortness of breath) is related to the babies being crammed up in my ribs now. Other people around me have been sick and how easily I pick up things I wouldn't be surprised if I caught another 'virus.' We are trying to avoid catching anything more serious like H1N1 or mono or some of the other things going around right now. My sibling's high school had over 20 people out sick with mono! Apparantly too much kissing going on there :)

Tonight the Mother's of Multiples club is having their fall rummage sale and I am so excited. I'll need to turn in my registration fee but then I can shop earlier before the rest of the public comes with the other moms. It will be fun to see what is there! I'm hoping a lot :) After that is finished my mom and sister and I will be going over to the huge craft fair that is in town. I have been WAITING for this... Tom is going to watch Abby while we are there so that we don't have to drag her around. She wouldn't like it at all and it wouldnt be any fun. I'm still trying to work on a Halloween costume for her. I can't decide if I want her to be a cute little animal or if I should have her be a princess of some sort since she would really love running around in that stuff. (She is eating oatmeal right now and it is EVERYWHERE) Perhaps a bath later?

But yep still hanging in here :) Babies seem to be doing fine. It looks like I'm going to need more oatmeal....

Wednesday, October 07, 2009

30 weeks 4 days

Well we are continuing to work towards 31 weeks :) Just got back from my appointment with Dr. H and so far nothing has changed (yay!). Still at 1 cm and the nice thing I havent gained anything! I know you gain a lot of weight with twins but it's always a little hard to watch those numbers go up up up! So I'm back next week to have a Biophysical Profile (BPP) ultrasound, appt with Dr B and appt with Dr H. She said from here on out I will be in every week or more. I'll have BPP ultrasounds every other week and NST (non stress tests) on the weeks that I don't have ultrasounds.

Of course, it could still change. She said Dr. B might want me to start coming in twice a week to be monitored. They just want to keep a close eye on those babies and make sure they are handling they ever smaller space ok. So for now that is what I know, she said to keep 'taking it easy.' (yeah right) We'll see how things are going next week. I'm excited because now I can go to the multiples rummage sale this weekend and the Autumn Craft Festival. :D Two things to look forward to... I need things to look forward to. The restricted activities and being home so much with Abby is getting a little tiresome.

Sunday, October 04, 2009

30 weeks 1 day

Yesterday I went in for my 2nd round of the steroid shots for the little girls. I had to enter the hospital through the Emergency Room of the hospital and was taken up to Labor and Delivery. They had me change into a gown, and when the nurse came in to get me hooked up to the monitors she asked me if I was having a boy or a girl. "Both girls" I said smiling and she was like... "Oh you are having twins?!" She had to run back and grab another monitor because she only had enough for one baby. So a few minuets later we got the girlies hooked up to the heartbeat monitors and my contraction monitor on.

A of course was being a little stinker, just doesnt like to cooperate! The nurse had to stick a roll of tape between the monitor and the band to keep enough pressure on it to get her heartbeat to stay on the monitor. I went through a nice round of questions with the nurse and then did a good 15-20 minuets on the monitors. She came in a little while later and gave me the shot. This one was so much better! It hurt like crazy going in but it didn't make my leg go so stiff and cramp up so bad like the last one did. I'm wondering if perhaps the first nurse didn't quite hit the right spot and nicked something.

My nurse came in a little bit later and grabbed the monitor strip to show her coordinator. It took awhile and she came back to say they wanted to monitor the babies a little longer. They came in, gave me an armband and had me sign hospital consents for treatment.... I was like ... wow what a lot of work for a silly shot! I guess the babies' heartrates were hanging around the 130s during most of the monitoring the first time and they didn't see the accelerations they wanted to. SO I got to stay and wait for those silly babies to wake up and get going. Once they did they showed off for the nurse really kicking and moving.

20 minuets later she came BACK in and took the strip saying the babies looked great and hopefully now I would be able to go home. To me I was like... Was there ever a question? Apparantly they had been a little concerned. I guess I'd rather them monitor the babies a little longer than send me home without checking to make sure they were just sleeping. The funny thing is the nurse that was working with me yesterday is the SAME nurse that did the triage and checked me in when I came in to have Abby in May! Small world lol considering I've only been up there for that ONE time.

Tom and I went out to a movie since our chances from here on out for a day seem to get slimmer and slimmer. We saw Transformers in our cheap theater...not the greatest movie but it was fun to have a little alone time with Tom. His boss gave us a crib mattress for free, we just had to pick it up. So we spent the 2nd part of our date doing that. But now we have a mattress for the twins in their nursery! We were going to go out to eat at Olive Garden but the wait was 45 minuets and it was already after 8 so we decided to head back to Beresford and get Abby.

My mom is keeping our dog Feebee for awhile, or until we get the fence. She is in heat (so a little crazy) and my mom doesnt want me running up and down the stairs so much to take her out to use the bathroom. So it is one less thing I have to deal with! That will help me out a lot. I had a painful contraction again yesterday morning... hoping that I don't get any more and that they aren't doing more with my cervix. The bleeding is back a little stronger, Baby A was pushing hard down below and giving me a lot of sharp pains. I'm just hoping whatever she is doing isn't getting things moving faster. I'm back in on Wednesday to get checked by Dr. H so at least I have that for peace of mind. For now I'll just do my best to take it easy.

I talked to a few mom's on a community of twins that I am a part of and asked about once they started dilating how far they made it. Some went into labor within a few days... others a few weeks but I havent seen anyone who has made it past 35-36 weeks. So it might not be long! 34-36 weeks would be ideal for me!!! At least the shots should help in case something does decide to happen and the babies come early. Stay put a little longer girls!!

How your baby's growing: 30 weeks-31 weeks

. A pint and a half of amniotic fluid surrounds her, but that volume will decrease as she gets bigger and takes up more room in your uterus. Her eyesight continues to develop, though it's not very keen; even after she's born, she'll keep her eyes closed for a good part of the day. When she does open them, she'll respond to changes in light but will have 20/400 vision — which means she can only make out objects a few inches from her face. (Normal adult vision is 20/20.)

This week, your baby measures over 16 inches long. She weighs about 3.3 pounds (try carrying four navel oranges) and is heading into a growth spurt. She can turn his head from side to side, and her arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath her skin. She's probably moving a lot, too, so you may have trouble sleeping because your baby's kicks and somersaults keep you up. Take comfort: All this moving is a sign that your baby is active and healthy.



Friday, October 02, 2009

30 Week Appointment


Ok where to start, lots to report this time! Baby A is 3lb 3oz, Baby B is 3lb 1oz and both are right around the 50th percentile in comparison to other single pregnancy babies. (they're doing just right for twins) My blood pressure is great at 96/60 and no signs of swelling. We're hoping this means no gestational hypertension with this pregnancy! No signs of TTTS or IUGR (intrauterine growth restriction) so far.

My cervical length is back down to 1.8-1.9, Dr B was less worried about this since it's less of a problem at 30 weeks than at 26 weeks. He asked if I had any symptoms so I explained that my bleeding was heavier over the weekend and that I had a 2 painful contractions on Sunday. This bothered him just a little so he told me to have Dr. H check to see if I was dilating at all. After a bit of a wait I got to see her and she checked to see how 'big my belly was' ... I'm measuring at about 38 weeks (8 weeks ahead now!) So I am officially as big now as I was when I delivered Abby last time! Then she checked my cervix and yep... I've dilated to 1cm. She gave Dr B a call to consult with him. They decided to give my the betamethasone steroid shots for the babies lungs.

If you don't already know what these shots are, they give them to pregnant mothers before 34 weeks whom they think might possibly deliver soon. What the shot does is give the babies a little boost in lung development and cuts down on their risks of getting brain bleeds because they are premature. Basically it boils down to the fact that if babies get them and come earlier they do better with the shot than without. Dr H said everyone is different. I could go into labor 6 weeks from today or I could go into labor tomorrow... it's just hard to know. They just wanted to be safe. I had one shot done today and oh my does it HURT! I've never had a shot that was quite that painful. (I've had quite a few!)  The best part is I have to go into the ER and up to labor and delivery tomorrow to have another one. There are 2 shots that need to be done within 24 hrs of each other. They'll have to monitor the babies on an NST so it will probably be a 1hr to 2hr long session.

Dr H wants to check me again next week so I'll be going in to see her again. Then the following week I'll have another appt with Dr H, Dr B and they'll be doing what is called a biophysical profile ultrasound where they score the babies on movement, breathing etc. (i had a 1-2 done with Abby) Then we'll start doing NST's regularly to see how the babies are handling being 'squished' By the way, Baby B has moved into the head down position alongside her sister now. So they are cuddling :) (see picture below)



So it looks like another adjustment around the house here. You would think we would be used to my taking it easy but I have such a hard time following orders with that. I can let things 'go' for so long and then I'm back up and at it cleaning and such. I've been 'nesting' so much lately it's hard not to want to move the furniture... yes move furniture we arent just talking folding baby clothes... I have the urge to rearrange whole ROOMS. I think that at least I will be going down to Beresford or my mom will be coming up so that I have less one on one time with Abby. This should be the biggest help. Hopefully we can figure it all out. Need to keep these babies in here for another good month :) (my cute hats aren't here yet!) hahahaha yes because thats why they need to wait... I'm just kidding.

No 3D pictures but I did get a few fun pictures at least. They did check for the vasa previa really good this last time and no signs of it at all. The tech said that Baby A is so mashed up against my cervix she doubts anything could fit in between that! Gives me a little peace of mind for which I am thankful for. I know some of this news is crazy and maybe a little worriesome but I'm really doing ok with it. I feel at peace about it and even if my babies DID come early they should be ok... I just don't want them to yet, they need to cook longer and give me time to get ready. So keep us all in your prayers just so that we can adjust once again to this change. I swear it's up and down and up and down all the time. I may be posting more often as I get more news or vice versa.















Wednesday, September 30, 2009

29W 4D


The next time I will be posting will be on Friday after our 30 week appointment :) I am so excited to see the girls again and find out how much they have grown. The next few days will be filled with appointments! Tomorrow I have to take Abby into what they call 'baby clinic'... this is with Dr. B to evaluate Abby's hair pulling and see what is going on with that. The biggest thing we want to check on is why exactly she is doing this. Could it be physical and she is having headaches? Is it stress related or is it compulsive behavior? I've scheduled other people for the clinic but I've never been a part of it so I'm curious to see what it all involves. They were going to have her come in November but someone canceled so now we can get in earlier! This will really help with me not being massive pregnant or with two more little ones.

The weather looks like it is going to be nasty at the end of this week... both days that I will be going up to SF in the afternoon. As long as it doesnt snow I'll be happy. :)

I will be approaching my doctors about the past issues of the Vasa Previa today. The closer and closer we get to the girls coming the more I start to worry that we've missed it and that something will go wrong and I will lose one of the girls. I want them to check for it and check for it and check for it until I feel more confident that this isn't just hiding somewhere. Probably should talk to my doctor about the heavier/darker bleeding and the fact that I think I'm having strong contractions in the morning... or the strangest stomach cramps in the world.  Part of me wonders if I should call in and talk to them earlier? Or just wait till Friday? I've not gone into labor yet lol

Well I suppose.... more to update with Friday!!

Sunday, September 27, 2009

29 weeks 1 day


Wow has it only been one day since I posted? It feels like it has been a whole week. Tom, Abby and I went down to Beresford after he got off of work yesterday. We decided that we would stay overnight for fun since it had been so long. It was nice to have someone else for Abby to play with, I think she was really getting tired of playing at home with mommy.

Last night was not good, ugh. I started feeling a little off around supper time but thought perhaps I just had allergy issues. Played some Xbox with Tom and my brother Andrew after Abby went to bed (very fun) then decided to go to bed. The mattress in Tiffany's room I think has seen better days and was hard hard hard HARD... or maybe I'm just really sensitive being so pregnant. The aches and the chest tightness just got worse and worse by the time Tom came to bed and I told him I couldn't sleep on the bed. Moved to the couch but felt so awful I really wanted him to be near me. My brother Paul was camping so we checked his room out and settled into the bottom bunk after giving it a good toss (Matthew had been playing on it I think) It might have been just a little softer but it was much cooler down there. The babies were having a good time, B had hiccups and Tom got to feel her 'going at it' which he really enjoyed. *usually when I tell him they are moving like crazy they stop as soon as he puts his hand on my stomach. *

He fell asleep, I couldn't. Got up and took some Tylenol which helped me get a little more comfortable. Had a rough night though and was up walking through the minefield that was my brothers room to the bathroom. Note to self, clear a path BEFORE going to bed. Then around 7:30 when I woke up I attempted to turn onto my other side and had two really really strong contractions (i think thats what they were) To me it felt as if I had a really bad Charlie Horse cramp across my lower abdomen. Oh it hurt! It wasn't mild cramping or tightening this was full blown painful and probably a minuet or more long (hard to keep track of that). So either it was a contraction.... or one of the girls REALLY adjusted herself and stretched my poor tummy.

The spotting has been back in full force again these last few days :( In fact today I was almost a little concerned because it was so much darker. I'm back to using sanitary pads because I'm soaking through undergarments so quickly. It's sooooo frustrating this spotting. The girls don't seem to be bothered by it and have been keeping plenty busy. My appointment is Friday so I guess we'll see how things are going.

I still don't feel very good. Thankfully Tom will be home to help me out tomorrow if I'm sick. It's hard to have the energy to keep up with Abby when I'm feeling good.... almost impossible when I'm run down and sick. Guess we'll find out tomorrow. Hopefully I will get a good night's sleep and that will improve things!

Saturday, September 26, 2009

29 Weeks!!!


How your baby's growing:

Your baby now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (like a butternut squash) and is a tad over 15 inches long from head to heel. His muscles and lungs are continuing to mature, and his head is growing bigger to make room for his developing brain. To meet his increasing nutritional demands, you'll need plenty of protein, vitamins C, folic acid, and iron. And because his bones are soaking up lots of calcium, be sure to drink your milk (or find another good source of calcium, such as cheese, yogurt, or enriched orange juice). This trimester, about 250 milligrams of calcium are deposited in your baby's hardening skeleton each day.

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The nurse took three hours to get back to me yesterday and when she did it was as if she were reading off the information as fast as possible. I'm not thrilled with her but that happens I guess. For every great nurse there's bound to be at least one that you don't like. Hopefully I won't have to deal with her anytime soon. She didn't even hardly give me any chance to explain my concerns or questions. Sometimes it annoys me when those nurses work so hard at trying to explain why they don't need to see you that they forget to talk to the patient/patient's mother about why they called in the first place. Really... I wasn't wanting to spend the rest of my afternoon up there either. It just would have been nice if you could have talked to me about this since I've never experienced it before.

The babies were moving and grooving though last night! Felt like they were tap dancing in my stomach, or kick boxing. It was a really odd feeling. They are getting stronger and stronger it seems! I'm going to try and work on my diet a little more and see if that helps. The fact that I'm having leg cramps and then these dips in blood sugar makes me wonder if something is a little off in what I'm eating. In fact my morning nausea has returned too... not as bad as it was in the first trimester but still obnoxious. I had oatmeal and a banana this morning.... 15 minuets ago... and I'm hungry again.

Well Abby is on a rampage, I'm not sure why she is so upset but time to go see what she's up to. Have a great day :)

Friday, September 25, 2009

28w 6d

Abby is so funny right now. She thinks that everything is hilarious and keeps looking back at me to see if I'll smile at her. It's cute. She should be going down for a nap soon but if she wants to play I'll let her wear herself out a little more before she takes her nap. Hopefully that will keep her asleep longer. And now she brought me her favorite book... Fox in Sox...

Right now I'm just waiting on a call back from the doctor. I think my blood sugar dropped last night. I was playing Halo with Tom, Mark, his roomie and my brother Michael (online)... I had an apple because I was feeling a little hungry and decided that would be a healthy choice. (and the apples from the orchard are so yummy) Ate that, played for awhile. Had a few glasses of water then saw the little Milky Way chocolate bar sitting on the counter. It was one of those snack sizes from the Halloween bags. Nothing huge. I've really craved chocolate lately and this is usually my way of getting a little chocolate without eating too much.

I started feeling really tired around 10-10:30 so told Tom that I was going to go to bed. I had chased Abby all day yesterday and was feeling worn out. Got ready for bed, took my meds. I 'think' I fell asleep and Tom came in about 30 minuets later, around 11. I was kinda out of it and I felt really shaky. Tom said that I felt really clammy. He was actually the one that asked if my blood sugar had dropped. I thought it couldn't be since I had eaten not long before bed to keep me going through the night.

Got up, tried to distract myself in case somehow I was anxious or something. Couldn't get rid of the shaky feeling but noticed I felt really hungry. I've been waking up at 2 & 3 in the morning just starving so instead of putting it off I got a bowl of cereal and took a warmish/hot bath. Felt better after this, went back to bed and fell asleep. The coyotes woke me up around 3 (really strange) but otherwise this morning I felt pretty good.

After I started thinking about it more I decided I should call my doctor and just let her know what happened last night since it is Friday. This is the 2nd time this has happened but I just thought it was nerves or something hormonal lol.
 The nurse talked to me a little and I'm not overly thrilled with her. She isn't my regular nurse, Brooke is out today I guess. She just made me feel so stupid for deciding to eat a Milky Way bar. I'm not a diabetic, I've never had problems eating anything before or having blood sugars drop or anything like that. In fact, there are many times I've eaten stranger things at 11, 12 or 1am... I eat when I'm hungry. She told me a better choice would have been something with protein, granted there are a lot of things healthier than a milky way snack but it was so good... sigh... I realized this is the same nurse I talked to at 5pm when I had that weird pressure and she told me just to lay down. She made me feel stupid for calling then too.

She said she was going to talk with Dr. H and see what she said or if she was concerned about it at all. I'm sure it has something to do with the fact that this time I have twins and they are stealing my sugars. But I had a good meal of roast, mashed potatos and corn at 7pm. That should have held me over?? I guess I'll just have to wait and see what she says. It's been 2 hours since she called me last, hopefully I'll know before it gets too late in the afternoon. Dr H just might be really busy.

I'll update with more later if they say anything interesting. 

Thursday, September 24, 2009

28w 5d

Abby just woke up, an hour after putting her down. I'm disappointed because this means I have 7 hours until she goes to bed... 6 of which I will have her alone. For those of you who wanted some pictures of the ever growing bump I took a few. It's getting harder and harder to do it myself and I have only 2 hours (maybe) all day where I can do things around the house. Hopefully these won't be the last belly shots. Perhaps I'll have Tom help me take a photo of the heart hand on belly.

I feel like a bad mommy letting her cry a bit but she honestly wasn't ready to wake up and I keep hoping that maybe she'll go back to sleep. Should we go to the park today? It's been so rainy that I'm not sure if it will be miserable. AND Abby likes the "chase me mommy" game FAR too much. Baby B is lodged in my ribs and killing me right now. I hope she doesn't stay there long. Last night was the first night in weeeeeeeks that I haven't had to get up more than twice to use the bathroom. Depending on where they are 'sitting' sometimes I'm up more than three times in an HOUR. And I honestly drink as little as possible at night. I used the back massager that Tom's mother brought up for me to use and it was amaazing. Took care of so many of my aches and it eased my sore back some. I recommend it for pregnant women!!!

My mom, Abby and I went shopping yesterday which was a lot of fun. I picked up at least one cute top and a few things for Abby. It was fun to do something with just my mom for a change. Well I don't have much else to report for now, I just wanted to post the pictures up. Our next appointment is a week from tomorrow. (October 2nd) wow October!

Everyone is a genius. but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid...
Albert Einstein. (I love it)

Abby 3 1/2

Abby 3 1/2

Kiley 2y

Kiley 2y

Kara 2y

Kara 2y

Christopher 4m

Christopher 4m

Quotes

"My three little wild children were running around the house, I asked Abby why they all had their clothes off... she looked at me very seriously and said "We're scavengers!" Would love to know where she got that..." (February 2012)

Overheard Abby playing with her Barbies during bedtime: "Fairytopia is dead. Guys don't planick."... a little while later... "Ariel is dead! Planick?... Planick planick!!!!" (March 2012)

Abby was running around in church. I swiftly stopped her and very seriously said "We aren't supposed to run in Jesus's house." Very seriously she replied "Jesus lives in my heart mommy." Point Abby- (May 2012)


 

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